The girls and me at the Roman ruins of Chellah
Cous cous yeahh!
An old Mosque and Mausoleum of Muhammad V
A village family we had lunch with in the Rif mountains
Me in the Rif mountains
Street market in Chefchaouen
A little girl I met in the village of the Rif Mountains
The girls and me at Asilah
Beautiful view at the edge of the Old Medina of Asilah
Riding a camel!
"If God wills it" is a phrase all Moroccans live by. I must admit that I never really understood how different a culture could be from the one I am accustomed to in the United States, for better or for worse, until I went to Morocco. This is a country with strong ties to both Africa and the Middle East and most people are practicing Muslims. In Morocco I experienced nothing but generosity, hospitality, and a willingness from everyone I met to share their beliefs and traditions with me.
A few Thursday mornings ago I traveled with eighteen other students from the SU program on a Moroccan exchange. We visited Tangier, Asilah, Rabat, Chefchaouen, and a small village outside of Rabat in the Rif mountains. I must say this was by far the most wonderful thing I have experienced in my time abroad. When we arrived in Tangier, our first stop was at the DARNA center for women. DARNA works with women who are in difficult situations, such as being newly divorced or having a baby out of wedlock. The women who come to DARNA are given schooling, and the necessary skills to find a job. The women who toured us around DARNA were wonderful. Over lunch, we had a discussion about the importance of the head scarf they wear, dating, religion, their views of Israel, etc. They were very open to sharing their opinions with us.
After DARNA we were surprised by our tour guide with a group of camels waiting for us at the beach. I was the first to jump on one (a little too excited) and had a great time riding down the beach. It was a little cliche for a Moroccan trip but hey...when else am I going to do it? Next we had a short drive to a small town outside of Tangier known as Asilah. The old Medina of Asilah is known for its summer festival where artists come to graffiti its white-washed walls. Asilah is GORGEOUS with beautiful graffiti, aqua green and blue doors, and a view of the Mediterranean ocean. I could see myself being very content there.
We had a three hour bus ride to the city of Rabat, Morocco's capital, and were assigned to our host families. I stayed with my friends Tara and Monica with a very sweet woman who has a husband and two daughters. Her oldest daughter is married and lives out of the home, but her youngest is in high school and was able to speak some English with us. Most everyone speaks French, some Spanish and a dialect of Arabic. Luckily Monica took French in high school so she could communicate for us! We had a great dinner of pasta, naan like bread, tea, and fruit. One thing is for sure: I would go back to Morocco if only for its food and tea.
After an early breakfast the next day, we gathered with a group of young men who work for an after-school children's program. It was formed after the Casablanca bombings in the early 2000's in an effort to educate young children and help them find hobbies, take an interest in sports, etc. The men were very hospitable, and it was interesting to see that some of their views about religion and dating were different from the views that the women of DARNA had. After this discussion we went to the Roman ruins of Chellah. This area of old columns and buildings is overgrown with plants and has been turned into beautiful gardens and a home for storks. The day was very hot, and I was reminded that I was in Africa because of the temperature and all of the wildlife.
After Chellah we all went home to have lunch with our host families. It is tradition in Moroccan culture to spend all morning in the Mosque on Fridays and then come home for a large lunch of cous cous. Our host mom made a huge bowl of cous cous with meats and vegetables, and we all shared it. It was a little difficult for me to eat because it is necessary to use the right hand for such things, as the left hand is traditionally known as being bad. But I soon learned my host mom did not mind which hand I used to eat, thankfully! After lunch we met up with students from the University of Rabat and they took us to the Old Medina of Rabat where there are many outside venders and stores to see. We bought teas, jewelry, and gifts for our families.
Our second discussion of the day was held in a Moroccan family's home with two Peace Corps members and an American student learning in Rabat as an independent major. I have always wanted to learn about the Peace Corps, as it seems like one of the most challenging and rewarding things someone could ever do. We learned about the innovative projects the Peace Corps volunteers were working on, and the loneliness of living in a city where it is difficult to speak the language and you don't know anyone. After a long, hot day in Morocco, we were taken to a Hammam, a public bath house. I have never experienced anything like a Hammam, and I guess it's equivalent in the United States would be a steam room, public locker room, and spa! We went home after this feeling very relaxed for a late dinner with our families and went right to bed.
Saturday morning we visited the Old Mosque and Mausoleum of King Mohammed V. It consisted of exquisite old ruins of a giant mosque, and a preserved building where King Mohammed's tomb is. This King of Morocco was very significant because he negotiated with France for Morocco's independence. Then we drove up into the Rif mountains, through a beautiful countryside with nothing to see but shanty towns, cows, sheep and horses. We were greeted by a young family with two children living in a small house in a village of the Rif mountains. They served us vegetables, cous cous, and tea, and with a translator we were again able to have an open discussion. It was interesting to contrast their beliefs and contentment living in such a rural area, with the desires of the Moroccans we met living in a more fast-paced and urban setting. We took a hike to see the beautiful landscape of the Rif mountains, and I met a young girl in the village who begged me to carry her all the way up. It was a work-out, but the girl was so cute I couldn't say no!
That night we drove to Chefchaouen, an old city of white and blue walls, small winding streets, and markets for us to buy blankets, jewelry, slippers, spices, and more. We spent our last night eating dinner atop a restaurant with a stunning view of Chefchaouen lit up at night. We even saw a wedding celebration dance through the streets! For dinner I had a cheese salad, pastilla (a Moroccan tradition of bread and chicken, with cinnamon on top), and fruit yogurt for dessert. Sunday morning, we awoke early to pack our bags and leave for the airport :(
During our last evening we had a reflective discussion about everything we had seen and done in our short time in Morocco, and the things we wanted to take with us and never forget. Something that really surprised me about Morocco, especially the people of the Rif mountains, is their ease and ability to enjoy life. I am so used to a life style of wanting and feeling like I need more, and never being content until I have achieved a goal. I was thinking that when I met impoverished people of Morocco I would feel "bad" or "guilty" that I have so much more than them. But the only thing I have more of is stuff. Stuff doesn't really matter if you have a family and are happy with yourself. It is a simple lesson to learn, and it does sound quite cliche, but I am so glad I have learned it. The difficult part will be integrating it into my life in the U.S.